Be grateful she didn’t say it first, as that would be even more difficult. It would be best not to mention your slip up, just say it again the next time you two are doing the dirty. Rolling around on top of each other is a great atmosphere for professing one’s love. If she doesn’t say it back but keeps dating you and everything else is fine, it could mean she is just the type who takes her time with that. I know people who never say it, and who can blame them? Actions are always more important than words in a relationship.

Because you’re a man. You didn’t mention her reaction. I think looking at porn is fine, but communicating with these girls from your past is rude to your wife. How would you like her keeping in touch with hot men from her past just to be “friends”? Always turn the situation around and put yourself in the other person’s shoes. Watching is fine, actively keeping in touch while married is pushing the envelope.

Get him to mount you, doggy style, as there is less pressure when you are not eye-to-eye, and say “fuck me harder.” See his reaction. If he goes with it, then toss in a few other lines like, “My pussy loves you in there,” etc. Hopefully after a few rounds of you being vocal, he will know it’s safe to try it as well. You may have to directly ask him to talk dirty to you, as some men respect women so much that they are hesitant to blurt out, “You like that you dirty bitch?” So if that’s the case, tell him over drinks one night that it would really turn you on if he spoke dirty to you in bed. This will give him a chance to tell you if he likes the idea or not, as asking him during sex may make him feel obligated and/or cornered.

The “sticky white shit,” you mean her clitty litter? That is her juice, nothing to be alarmed about unless it looks like cottage cheese and she scratches her snatch every chance she gets. First of all, there is only one way to find out how to lick her correctly and that’s by doing it and stopping every once and a while and asking her, “Like that?” Don’t do the man thing and drive around for ages without a map and without asking for directions—just ask her. A good way to start is to make your tongue nice and wide and lick her like a cow licks a block of salt. And keep this in mind: “Real men eat pussy.”