You confuse me; you say “The intercourse is great” then you say that you agreed to no intercourse before marriage. What the fuck? She was fucking you but now suddenly no sex (apart from you licking her out on a regular basis) until you walk down the aisle? What we have here is a woman who doesn’t appreciate your cock enough to do to it what a cock loves the most, getting blown constantly. Asking, “Why don’t you suck my dick?” is a perfect question. It hits the nail right on the head. But maybe you have to rephrase it a bit. I have said this before, but maybe you missed it, just stop going down on her and when she asks why, say “good question, I was going to ask you the same thing—why the lack of oral sex?” You’ve had three unfinished blowjobs in two years and now no hot beef injections until marriage. And you still want to marry her? Her pussy must be lined with velvet my friend. Be a man and speak up about your normal, healthy oral sex craving and find out before you take the leap if you are in for a lifetime of this one-sided oral sex routine bullshit. Sounds to me like you are settling. If you marry her, you may end up cheating to get your cock sucked elsewhere, so think hard about this. You need to step up to the plate before it’s too late.

If she was in bed with him, sleeping, then she isn’t a liar, just a two-timing cunt. Heh heh. No, seriously it could be she is just dating more than one guy. Since you are only “dating” I would keep my options wide open (pun intended) like she is. Instead of wasting energy on someone you now know you can’t trust, take that energy and go out and meet other girls. Is she really worth all the hassle? If you do decide to confront her, make sure it’s in person, so you can see her face and watch for tell tale signs of lying (pathetic, shocked look on red face; going into extreme details and having your questions mainly answered with questions). Be prepared for her to say she is seeing other men but there is still no excuse for her lying to you and if you tell her how you know, she will think you have been stalking her. I would just move on and play the field, but if you do shag her again, make sure you have condoms with you.

One should be able to get turned on and wet without having to smoke something or pop any kind of pills. I am all for the good old fashioned aphrodisiacs, like getting a nice, firm foot massage while I sip red wine and listen to some Jimi Hendrix (best music to fuck to). And according to all of my girlfriends, a lengthy pussy licking always does the trick.